SUBMISSION

This is something that is highly controversial and the topic of many debates;

Wife's submit to your husband,

Today on one of the morning programs, they talked about this with a woman who had wrote a book on it, I have not read the book, so I can not say to any full degree, as to what she has said,

But I can talk about the one thing I heard her say,

And for the most part I agreed with what she said, but I want to look deeper at at this one thing,

First she said it was an experiment,that she wanted to try for a year, and was to say that she is type A personality, meaning she wants to drive, and her husband is a type B more laid back,

First it should never be just an experiment,

But  what she said she did, was to start asking him what he wanted, they were buying a house so she ask him what he wanted in it;

This is not submission, plain and simple, it is her thinking she is allowing him to speak, and say what he likes, and she said that she found the more supportive she was of him the more he was to her,

This is still not being submissive, 

So what is truly submitting to ones husband?

Submit,;- To yield or surrender to the will or authority of another,

 So much to say here, where do I start?

First it is a Knowing, on both persons, as to what this truly means, the husband has to be seeking God; as his head, and yes if these be then man is to be the head of the woman;

1 PETER;3;7

Likewise you husbands dwell with your them according to knowledge,giving honor to the wife;

5; For after this manner in old time the holy women also who trusted in God, adorned themselves,being in subjection unto their own husbands;

So he is to be the head, the chief decision maker, and the wife is to respect and honor him;

6;Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham calling him lord; whose daughters you are, as long as you do well, and are not afraid with any amazement,

Continued,